darling (1965)
today, is valentine's day! naturally, on a day like this I think about films that deal with the complicated relationships between men and women. one that comes to mind is john schlesinger's film
darling. julie christie plays
diana scott a model, who uses her beauty to gain fame and fortune....immediately, she draws attention from a television journalist
dirk bogarde and convinces him to give up his family to be with her. as their relationship goes on, she becomes increasingly bored by him and starts sleeping around with other men in higher circles of society. while she is able to get more modeling jobs, and more attention from other men, she finds that she is unable to achieve happiness within herself. whether you are single or in a relationship, there is definetly something to be learned by watching this film. personally, I have never really understood men or women who jump from relationship to relationship....while, I do support a healthy realtionship I do not support couples who stay together just because they are afraid of being alone. sometimes, I think being single is important. you start to understand more about what makes you happy and not so much about pleasing others. diana scott in
darling was all about finding happiness by running into the arms of men who paid her a little bit of attention...personally, I always think that is a recipe for disaster. I liked this film because because it was not the perfect happy ending...the man that diana truly loves does not want to be with her, and diana ends up with someone else...how sad! I don't want too sound negative, but sometimes I think it is better to be alone than to fake a relationship....I think this is a lesson to be taught to all men and women. on that note, if you find yourself in a healthy relationship, consider yourself lucky and if you are single....well, still be happy. I guess it is not your typical valentine's day film, but it will most likely get you thinking about the complications of love and relationships....happy valentine's day!