happy-go-lucky (2008)
the perfect film for valentine's day or for any day, is mike leigh's
happy-go-lucky. immediately, we are introduced to poppy (sally hawkins) who is a thirty year old single teacher who shares a london flat with her best friend zoe, a fellow teacher. poppy is devoted to her students, but her life isn't dominated by her career. She takes flamenco lessons with another teacher and a trampoline class and enjoys going to the local pubs. She seemingly has no fear of strangers, and can talk to anyone even the homeless. one scene that I remember most about the film is when poppy and zoe go to visit helen, her married-pregnant sister. helen tells poppy that she needs to 'take life seriously' and plan for the future, but poppy responds that she is happy with her life as it is....which is what I think is a perfect message for men and women. while poppy eventually does start dating a man, she doesn't let the relationship control her life. she understands that having kids and getting married can be a positive thing, but it is not always the correct path everyone must take in life. personally, I try to follow 'a poppy way of life' which is finding joy in the little things like taking a dance class, drawing in my sketchbook, or hanging out with friends and family, which is how I will be spending this valentine's day!